Sex researcher Justin Lehmiller’s unfiltered tips on having the best sex of your life, communicating your desires, and tapping into what turns you on. 

• the most common fantasies people have (+ the top fantasies of introverts vs extroverts, Republicans vs Democrats, and more)
• what our fantasies say about our needs and personalities
• how to know when/if you should act on your fantasies
• a complete guide to having successful threesomes, including how to talk about it, where to find a third, and more 
• what to do when your sexual desires don’t line up with your partner’s
• whether science supports casual sex 
• whether porn can be part of a healthy relationship 
• the one practice you should do twice a year for way better sex 
• how to have a better sex life even if you’re tired or busy
• how to have quicker orgasms
• and so much more! 

For more from Justin, check out his book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life and follow him on Instagram at @justinjlehmiller. 

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